Not all girls are the same by

Not all girls are the same by

truly, not all girls are.. all girly. or at least, if they are, they do not show it. of course many of us like romance and cuddling, and hugging and the oh so typical "i love you" routine.

But many women will seem more cold, or more... uh... masculine(and i dont mean the appearance, but the way of behaving). dont think you'll win a woman's heart just because you're all lame-o with her, and get her flowers and some nice lingerie. it does help, but sometimes some women are so hurt from previous relationships they will consider some of these acts as insults or boldness. in that case, many times there is nothing you can do but persevere, and show them that you truly are different from all the idiots she loved before... with this kind of woman, it will truly be quite a chase, as she wont easily trust you or pierce her hard shell of coldness. but be yourself, be sincere and mos important of all, do have patience and try to understand what she's been through.

Even if you think her revious relationships were not that traumatic, do NOT open your mouth about it. she probably feels different about this subject, and you would only be lowering the chances of gaining her respect. another thing. some of these women need their space. they've become so distrusting of men they dont even want them around unless it's truly necessary.
Open doors for her, pull her seat and always let her in first.
So do not bug her all the time. make your phonecall count, leave her a small but meaningful and thoughtful note and she will eventually become used to your presence in her life, allowing you to become close to her. do not, however, allow yourself to become a doormat for these girls.
Sometimes they do have a desire for revenge, even if you're not the guy who hurt them. You gotta have some self respect too. i speak for myself, but i could never respect an idiotic guy who could not stand for himself. hope i helped you guys undestand a little more about this kind of creature that is the heartbroken woman. maybe some of you guys will now learn how to find a path to our hearts again. good luck, in some cases, you'll truly need it.