If she wants to know the answer she has to text you back. The secret is to make the statement about her personally. Nothing makes a person more curious than what someone else thinks about them.
Getting a girl you are interested in to respond to your first text uses the same method you would use to get anyone to respond, by asking a question or making a statement that calls for more information.
Though this may sound easy, it requires some thought to put into practice. Not any statement or question will do, otherwise “Hey what’s up?” would be an ideal first message.
Take a basic and reword it so it becomes fun & playful.
Example:
“What’s up?” becomes “What kind of mischief are you causing today?”
Ok so im dating this guy. weve been dating for like a month now.....last night i was over at his house for a party because a friend of ours is moving away and his mom had thrown a party. so we were in his room and everyone had left it was completely dark and the only light was coming through the window above his bed which we were sitting on together quite close together i might add and he said to me do you like me a lot? and i said well yeah other wise i dont think we would be dating right now...now would we? and he said no i guess not huh?
And we both laughed and then the most amazing thing happened.............he leaned in and kissed me.............it wasnt much not like a makeout session cuz we didnt want his mom to walk in or anything but it was amazing i loved it and later he told me that he was really happy and couldnt wait till camp where we would be together everyday for a month...yay!!!!..........so yeah - anonymous, 13, Florida
Well, i have this boyfriend who i thought was really sexy and hot. :] which he was, he wanted to kiss me but i could, because i was so shy. i didnt know what or even how to kiss him. he kept on asking me why i didnt want to kiss him and wanted a reason, so i told him ''i dont know who to kiss'' he was like ''its ok, it doesnt mater if you dont know how to, because you can learn.'' so he leaned in and kissed me. then i tried and he was like '' see your doing it. you learned quick, and you said you cant kiss'' soo we kissed more and more and practically made out, a second away from sex. and i couldnt believe i'd done it. but i did, and im happy now. becuase i cant believe i waited so long to kiss him, because he kisses very qood ! :] - anonymous
