1. It needs to set a fun, playful tone for future interactions
2. It needs to engage her emotions, causing her to re-affirm her attraction to you
3. It needs to compel her to respond
If all these things can be accomplished in your first text you are practically guaranteed a positive response. She will also be much more enthusiastic about moving forward with you.
Next we explore how each element works & how to include them in your first text.
My first kiss was on a field trip! Me and my bf went on a field trip to the capital and we were going to go to the top! I hate heights so i was freaking out! So we were climbing up the stairs and he was in front of me! And i saw his gr8 butt. Then when we stopped for a break he let me go in front of him and so i was getting really nervous and dizzy and we r finally at the top! I stay closest to the building as i walk around he i tell him that i dont feel very good and so he holds on to me.
And right as the teacher comes i pass out. So my bf says ill take her inside and so him and his friend bring me inside and gets me water.
I was laying down with my head on his lap and i wake up freaking out saying where am i and i wouldnt stop saying that and so he calms me down while everybody else is still outside looking at the river. he tells me where we r and he says that i passed out and that he knows something that can make me feel better. im still laying down. and he kisses me! I was so happy and feeling much better! It was like a spiderman kiss upside down. i was sooooo happy! - Ashley, 14, MO
My first kiss was a surprise. Me and this guy on my bus was a bad boy and i loved that about him. One day i get on the bus and sit with as usual and he says want to play Principal and student and i said sure! well he was saying stuff like can i see u in my office. U have a dentention.etc. so finally were at the school and the bell rings and he leans over and says u have been very naughty and i turn to him and he kisses me. I was in heaven.i have liked him 4 so long and finally he kisses me! but we never went out b/c he was tooo old for me! I was 12 and he was 17! - anonymous
