The problem is not that you are not dateable but you really are not giving yourself the best representation. Dating is like a court appearance, when you head into court you know that there is an expected way for you to speak, to dress and behave. Most men however, did not get the memo that dating has these exact same rules! Pick up artist however, don't just know the basic rules they know every trick, and tip that most guys never even dream about. If you want to start getting girls consider this valuable advice.
You are what you wear: Unlike a court appearance, dating does not have one specific dress code. The outfit you would wear to take a date out to a trendy restaurant is probably a lot different from your typical club wear. To be successful at dating you need to be able to wear clothing that looks good and fits with the situation you find yourself in. In fact, you should be able to rise above your clothing, that may sound a little strange so let me explain.
Have you ever had a friend who always wears the same type of shirt and pants but never buys new clothes or bothers to change his look? I did, Mike always wore a black t-shirt and jeans, when a friend of ours got married and he had to put on a suit, Mike was almost unrecognizable. The suit just seemed to dwarf him; since Mike was taken out of his comfort zone, he panicked and had no idea how to handle himself. He spent the entire night sulking in a corner instead of mingling with lots of available women.
Smooth moves never fail
Pick up artists are renowned for their ability to ease up to any woman, get her relaxed and carry on a conversation. They are so successful at it because they have no fear of being rejected. It is not that pick up artist cannot be rejected but they refuse to allow the idea of rejection to hold them back. Being turned down just means an excuse to hit on another girl in the room. Though it may sound a little cold, it is actually a great way of putting dating into perspective. A woman's rejection is not going too kill you, so learn to deal with the rejections and keep on moving until you find the girl that is right for you.
Pick up artists thrive on being mysterious and secretive, never telling a woman everything about themselves. Part of the desire in a new relationship is the unknown. Women find it arousing and fun to fantasize about a guy before they know everything about them. By withholding a little you keep the newness of the relationship, the period where two people in a couple are still getting too know each other, thereby keeping the relationship from going stale.
Confidence can never go wrong: Confidence may seem natural to pick up artists but regular guys can easily increase their own confidence. Understand that you do deserve to date and be seen with beautiful women and that you do have something special and unique to offer women you find attractive.
Confidence plays a part in many areas of dating. Confidence is what gives guys the courage to walk up to a beautiful woman and ask her out. Confidence is what makes a guy pick up the phone to call a woman after getting her phone number and even what he relies on when taking a woman out on that crucial first date.
