For example...

Chances are you are not the only guy pursuing the girl(s) you are interested in. The ability to separate your self from the pack and make yourself known as her best choice is a must.

Almost any guy can get a girl’s phone number, the problem is that they completely forget (or had no idea in the first place) how to interact when it comes time to text her. It is important to, at each step, validate in her mind that the right choice is to move forward with you and not the next guy in line.

Though you are more than likely unaware of it, those 1-3 lines of text you are sending her are telling her a lot about the type of guy you are.

I got my first kiss 3 years ago. It was March 10, 2005 I was just 16. My boyfriend, who was also my classmate, decided not to attend graduation practice since we already know what do to. We went to the mall and started window shopping until i felt really sleepy.

I then suggested for him to get us a room since we can't do home yet because our parents didn't know about out relationship yet. By the time we got our room, I then decided to sleep. I didn't know what was going on with him that he doesn't want me to sleep. Instead, we curled together on the bed and started talking about things. Finally, he said "Ummm, my dad said i have to ask the question before i could do things to you." I replied ..

"SO? ... um .. " (but i was really thinking why need to ask? .. .) my boyfriend is somewhat the prim and proper kind and I was his first girlfriend. I said "SURE" ... I kissed him in a zap! He said "I was supposed to do that!" ... then i replied " Oh, Sorry ... You're so slow hon" ... Then he kissed me .. but this time it was slow and very passionate ... and one thing led to another ... but we never had sex... just until the boobs part .. haha ... temptation .. - JerseyGirl, 19, Philippines, CDO

Have a Sense of Humor

Have a Sense of Humor
The exact opposite emotion we are trying to provoke is one of seriousness. It is common for a woman to build an attraction solely based on his sense of humor. Even if she initially doesn’t feel an attraction to you, a good sense of humor is so powerful it can make you seem completely irresistible and in turn, make her fall for you.
A sense of humor is consistently ranked as the most important attribute a man can possess. The reason is simple; Humor indicates that you don’t take yourself or the interaction too seriously

There is nothing as powerful as a good sense of humor to being a woman’s guard down and make her feel relaxed. When she is laughing she is comfortable and happy, and if you are the one making her laugh, she is going to associate you with those positive feelings.

When she is laughing she is no longer judging or evaluating you. You make her aware that you are fun to be around. Your sense of humor will also put you in a light-hearted mindset and make you take yourself less seriously.

Hey this is my first kiss story. Its not especially cool but i thought id send it i anyway. Ok so i was with my girfriend at her house. Me and her had only been going out for a couple of weeks and i had wanted to kiss her 4 ages. Anyways we were taking a walk round hr house and i saw this cool mountain hill thingy we could climb and be alone. So we were lying up on this hill looking up at the sky and i was holdig her close to me and everything was quiet and perfect.

Suddenly i looked up and saw 4 little 10 year olds staring at me open mouthed and giggeling and i thought to myself: "Oh god please not now!" wen i realized these annoying kids werent gonna leave i wispered to my girlfreind that w should go hide in the trees till thy went away. So we did. Wen they left the day was almost over and the sun was setting. We went down to this beach and we just stood there messing around. Then i just took her by the waist, looked into her beutiful blue eyes and kissed her. It was so perfect;) we are stll together and i hope we will be for a long time. Shes the most amzing girl i have ever met but if sh finds out i wrote this she would kill me. - Anonymous J, 14, Stavanger, Norway