The Pick Up Artist- effective way's

Another effective way to communicate emotion and tone is through emoticons. You can spell them out in parenthesis, i.e. :) becomes (smiley face). Any variation of these can be used. By using them your can portray feelings of playfulness & sympathy, or simply let her know that you are in a good mood. Even an overly cocky statement can seem less so when using emoticons.

My first kiss was amazing. ok my ex boyfriend (boyfriend at the time) and i were going for a walk one night. his family was there and we were walking his dogs. when we got back to my house, it was dark, and his parents left us to talk. so we were ust standing there and it was kindof akward because we were both thinking the same thing. then he was like, ''you know it is gonna happen sometime right?'' then i was like, ''yeeeaaaahhh i am just nervous!'' then he said' dnt worry itll go fine'! so he got so close to me and our forheads touched and we stared into eachothers eyes. then i kind of gave a nervous squeal ( dont ask) and he moved back. he was like, ''did i do something wrong?''

I was like' no i am just nervous".. then he was like, "ok do u even want to?" i was like' yea... i dnt know wat to do tho" so he kind of guided me through it. he had nver kissed anyone either, but he had seen it. so he put my arms around his neck, then he put his arms on my waist and pulled me veeerrrryyy close to him, i could feel his breath on my lips. then he moved in and our lips touched. then he pulled back and i blushed and smiled, so he moved in again and held me so close and passionatly, i didnt want to leave. then we got kind of used to it and we opened mouth, but no toungue. then he slowely moved his toungue into my mouth and french kissed me.

I didnt do anything with my tounge because i was nervous. but after we just hugged and i said, " i liked that alot, i am glad we did that!" then he was like, "me too we definatly should do that more" and he smiled. his mom called and said he had to go so he gave me a goodnight kiss and left. i was so happy i will never forget it. we did end up breaking up a few weeks later, but we are still best friends. - Kelli, 14

The Pick Up Artist- Your first text message

So you’ve got her number. Well done.

But now are you wondering what you should text her?

Lots of guys will spend hours thinking about sending the first text, wracking their brains for the “perfect” thing to send her…
and then the best they come up with is “hey, what’s up?”
Read on to learn a better way…

Your first text message is making your first impression all over again. You need to show her that you’re that fun, cool guy who she met in person. And most of all, you want her to respond so you can start a conversation over text, and ultimately get her to meet up.
How To Flirt over Text Messages

It’s important when you’re learning how to text girls that you steer clear of the normal, “boring” text messages. If you’re texting a very beautiful girl, she is probably ALREADY getting texts from normal, needy guys, so we have to stand out.


My first kiss was when i was 15. it was with this guys that i thought only the popular girls could get. he was 16 and he was the funny kid. i first saw him in my science class and i tfell in love with him and couldnt take my eyes of his plaid jackets. but later that day i foud mout that he a as girlfriend and i was really depressed so i forgot all about him. then a few weeks later i found out that he broke up with her. so i started liking him again an i knew i had no chance because he was way out of me league.

A few weeks later i was at my house and my dad said that a few of his friends were coming over to help fix our fence and i didnt think anything of it. So later on i was upstairs doing my homwork and the doorbell rang, i went downstairs to get the doodr and when i answered and let him in and as soon as i closed the door the bell rang again and when i opened it i saw him and i couldnt belive my eyes. i was shocked and i ran upsatirs, i started calling all my friends and while talking to them i watched him put up the fence from my balcony. soo to skip to the better part......my dad and his friend found out they needed this speacial part for the fence and they had to go to copenhagen to get it. rerlived yet sad that he had left i went downstairs to get a snack but yet to my surprise he was still there . "hey im in your spanish class" me: "oh ya hi im anna" "i know"

( i thought was an idiot for saying that)

Then started to talk and he was really cool and not what i expected at all. we sat in the gazebo and it started to get dark and really cold and he offered me his PLAID jacket. when he was putting the jacket on me and he turned me really close to his face and stared into my eyes for a while and said "you really dont know how beautiful you are" (and i didnt know what to say maybe this was a joke and he was goinna go back to school and tell all his friends what he did and i would be the laughing stock of my school) and then before i could say "funny joke" he pulled me in and kissed me on the lips and as ours lips met the song "oh oh oh its magic was playing. - anna, 15, soulvang