Pickup

If you spend several hours, having a usual conversation, not aiming to impress her, and showing that you have other things to do instead of thinking about your possible future relations, you will have more chances to succeed in relations with this woman. Otherwise, behaving nervously and simply silly, admiring her and considering her the dream of your life, you force her to run away from you.

Remember the main mistake of all guys, made of the first date: DO NOT BEHAVE AS IF A GIRL WILL DEFINITELY BE YOUR WIFE.

It would be better to relax. Make a joke; say that she spoils everything every time. Say she is a perfect friend. And she will surely want to change the “category of friends of yours” into another, more prestige “category”. For example, to become your girlfriend.

My first kiss was literally 6 days ago. Three days before Valentines day. I was over at my best guy friends house for the night.

It was the first time that my mom was trusting me over at his house alone. His dad was home, and me and Zach [my best friend] were downstairs playing Mario. We went and hung out for a while before we got tired and went up to his room. I laid on his bed and watched him while he played his drum set for a little while. After a while he came and we laid together.

We were cuddling and whispering things to each other. We've always said i loved you to each other, as friends. The sad part was, I had a boyfriend, and he had a girlfriend. Then the lights went out and he held on tight to me before he just leaned in and kissed me. It lasted about 5 seconds, but then I pushed him away because my mom called. After the lights came on, i went to go get my stuff on because my mom was on her way over to pick me up.

He came up behind me and held me for a while and then kissed me. It was really romantic. We got into a fight after that though. And then the next day, it happened again. In my bedroom. He said he was crazy about me and addicted to kissing me. He kissed me in front of his dad! And that's huge. Though now...things are awkward for us. - Mariah, 13

My first kiss was not like i expected it to be, but it was kinda cute. it happened about a week ago. i was sitting next to my crush. he was also kinda my friend so... yeah. anwyays my friends were teasing me around him, which made me nervous. he was talking to me and i LOVE how he makes eye contact when he talks to me, so we eye-locked. my friends were right behind me, seeing that i wasnt paying attention to them.
all i rember is, i felt someone PUSH me into him, and our lips met. we were both confused, but it lasted for about 3 seconds. then my friends were like OOOOOOOOH!!! and after we parted we were stairin at eachother in shock. after about 10 seconds, i staired at my friends, who were giggling. then i looked back at my crush and he was laughing. i was totally confused, but i didnt care. i laughed too, and he hugged me out of the blue. it was a day after my birthday, so i guess it was the BEST birthday gift in the world!! - Kristina, 12

I was going out with a girl and she cheated on me, I was friends with her best friend and we got closer (as friends) then one day we went out and I bought her a drink and we were flirting and we both could feel the chemistry but denied to acknowledge it. I walked her to her bus stop and we hugged and I said can I have a peck on the cheek for the drink I bought.
She leant in and I turned my head to face hers quickly and we both kissed, I looked into her eyes and we started to kiss for a long time, now we have been together for 2 years. =] - anonymous

Okay so it was with this guy who i had been going out with for 4 and a half months. We had done little pecks before but never had a real kiss with him. So i had a party one night and i invited him.

Nothing happend at the begining of the night just layed on my couch together and talked while i had my iPod playing. Well my mom rented a scary movie for us called dead silence (which, for the record, was not scary at all) All night we were looking forward to the movie cause we knew what would happen. So after we ate i was like "Come on guys lets go watch the movie!" and he was like yeah! so we all ran upstairs. When the movie first started, the lights were out and he had his arm around me.

But we realized my mom was standing behind us so we were like crap. Every once in a while i would glance back so i think she got the message and left about ten minutes into the movie. We said finally and we really cuddled. He had one arm wrapped around me and i had my arms around him and every once in a while we hold hands or he would rub my leg or id rub his back. So at one point he turned towards me and said "i love you" and i told him i loved him too.

I was suprised cause he never had said it to me in person.. so we both leaned in and started close-mouthed kissin and after like five seconds we started makinng out and that lasted for like forty five. it was a lot longer then it sounds. we stopped cause we heard giggling and realized we had everyone staring at us. i got up, and went to the bathroom and when i came back he was stretched out across the couch and i said "were am i supposed to sit?" and he pointed to him self. So i layed on top of him and just layed my head on his chest for a while untill we kissed again but it only lasted for fifteen seconds cause his parents called. It was still really nice and was the best party EVER! - anonymous, 12

A first long-awaited date with a guy completely depends on his nationality, appearance and character. If you spend some time learning psychology of men, you will find out many interesting facts. Who is your partner in life?

My first kiss happend two days ago. We are both 12 and have been going out for about 3 weeks and 1 day. Me and my boyfriend were going out to eat and then to a movie.

After we got into the theater we started to hold hands(this was also the first time we held hands). He kept asking me if i was confortable and staring at me. I smiled back alot. Then he scted closer so i saw it coming. The he slowly leaned over and said I love you. Then he kissed me. It only lasted about 3 seconds but was magical. When it was over we both smiled and walked out of the theater. We hugged goodbye and that was my first kiss. - anonymous

It was Febuary 14th, 2008, I was 14 when I finally got my first kiss.
Ironic enough.
My boyfriend and I had been going out for 12 days and we were both looking forward to our first kiss together.
We'd always say that we would kiss, but I guess we were both too nervous.
I had liked this guy for a little under than a year, but never went out with him because he liked someone else.
So it wasn't till Febuary 2nd that we finally became girlfriend and boyfriend.
Anyway, on Valentine's Day morning my boyfrien had given me a silver ring with a zirconia on it and a letter to go with it too.

After we exchanged our gifts we both knew our first kiss together was going to be today, we just didn't know when.
The bell for the end of recess went, and my boyfriend and I were hand in hand, walking. We both stopped and looked at each other, and without hesitating we both leaned in and kissed. It wasn't French, but it was an open mouth kiss.

I think I was more excited than he was considering he had already had his first kiss the year before. So I was very happy my first kiss wasn't a mistake and I got to share it with a person I really liked.

It's the beginning of 2009 and we have both gone our seperate ways, but I don't think I will ever forget my first kiss. - anonymous

As I am writing this it is the day after my first kiss, so I remember it fairly well, I'm mormon and not technically supposed to have a girlfriend, yet I have had two, one who was never very affectionate and we had lots of issues, we broke up recently (we are both in 9th grade) and i'm also in band, she broke up with me the day before the state game, I realize I should have waited longer, but I dont think I liked her as much as I thought.
Anyways, at the state championship game, I met a college freshmen (yes, 4 years older then me) and we admited we liked eachother on the long bus ride back and kinda snugled, afterward she said she wished I kissed her, I promised I would next time I saw her.

We went on our first date yesterday (we went two a movie, actually we ended up going to two) and about halfway through the movie my date actaully fell on the ground (because she had her feet up on her friends next to her and her head in my lap) when she got back up she kinda leaned on me and put her head back, so we where a few iches from eachothers faces, we both kinda leaned in and kissed for a second.
She got back to her own seat and wispered in my ear "you suck at kissing"
The rest of the night she gave me lessons and I got a little better - Robby, 14, Austin, Texas