The main reason of doing do – let it be!

I am sure it concerns you, too, my reader.

If you start to behave oddly and to be excessively nervous, you will spoil everything even before you get a chance in relations with this woman.

Here is what you shouldn’t ever do: do not even try to treat a woman, whom you’ve just met, like the love of your whole life.

On the contrary, use the opposite approach to the matter.

My favorite approach is to imagine, that a girl has something that would make me upset, bother me, in other words, reduces her chances of serious relations with me.

The main reason of doing do – let it be!

I loved my first kiss. Not because it was really romantic or because it was planned or anything, but because it was with someone i really love;my boyfriend Chris who is the smartest, hottest, sweetest guy on the face of the planet. Because it was with him, it was perfect. It was four days ago, on monday.

I had known that he was gonna kiss me soon for a while but i didn't know when. So we were hanging out in front of the history room on the third floor of my school on monday at lunch. We were just talkin and then i looked at my cell-phone and I'm all "well i gotta go to class now" and i hugged him and started walking away.

But there was no one in the hallway so he's like "wait come back" and he pulls me back gently by my arm and twirls me around to face him. Then he starts kissing me, tounge and all. The kiss lasted for a minute and 30 seconds or something. We kiss like that everyday now and I love him more than anything in the world. Everybody, people say that their first kisses sucked all the time, and i dont know about them, but if you want a perfect kiss, just wait to kiss someone that you really like. It makes it so much better and you will remember it forever. - yellowsoccergirl, 13 SC, Cali


Hey, my first kiss happened 2 days ago!!
It was on December 9, 2008. It was my birthday and I was meeting my bf at this italian place for my b-day his name is Trevor. He is so cute! He said he was giving me a 'suprize'. I had picked this really cute.
Black velvet dress and I saw his dad drop him off, and he came up to me and took my hand and said, " after you, Leynissa." we walked in and got food and when wew l left, it was raining, and he leaned in to kiss me on the lips, his hands at my waist. His warm lips tasted like milk. We are still dating TODAY. I will never forget it. - Lynessa, 11, CA

I just had my first kiss today, March 9th, 2009. The guy is my first boyfriend and we've been dating for over a year now. We were running errands for the band teacher after school and we sat down behind the coats the band wears at football games. We were just talking. I showed him my violin and next thing I know I'm kising him. It was very romantic until the band teacher called for us. I'm definitly gonna kiss him again. - Sharon, 15, Pennsylvania

Women are relaxed, when they go on a date for first time....

In other words, women are relaxed, when they go on a date for first time.

And in most cases guys reason as if each girl would be their wife by all means.

It is easy to guess, that it creates some tension and puts pressure on you And, of course, there is nothing good in it.

I mean the tension which makes guys to shake nervously and tremble, and women feel some discomfort because guys behave as if a date was unpleasant for them.

My first kiss was last week at my church's youth group. My friend and I were playing Ultimate outside.

I'd thought I liked him since I met him, but he was my first real guy friend, I didn't know if I would act this way around any guy. He suddenly threw me a high throw and I jumped, catching it, but landing awkwardly on my ankle.

I couldn't get up on it, and he ran over, putting one hand behind my back and his other on my knee. I said, "Sorry, my ankle..." he cut me off saying..."Don't worry, it's all right." I began to say something else, but he put a finger to my lips. Quietly, he said, "No, I've got you." I relaxed a little, still in pain, and he picked me up. I was set on my good leg, and he still had an arm behind me. I was tearing up a bit and trying not to show him, looking at me feet.

He said, "You're beautiful when you're crying." He took his other hand and pulled my chin up. "Close your eyes." I did, with more tears in my eyes, though not from pain. He kissed me softly, just hesitating before we touched and as we kissed. My heart soared, and I put an arm around his neck, loving him more and more. We came apart, and he smiled. "I love you." I responded, crying, "I love you, too." He then picked me up, kissed me again, and this time I lingered even longer. I loving him, and he loving me! He carried me inside. He's such an amazing guy! We're now going out, and I know it will last long, maybe (hopefully) forever! - Lindsey, 15, Eastern Mass

It was on Rugby 7s weekend (i live in Hong Kong) and me and this guy stewie had been hanging out all day watching rugby and messin around (cos basically the focus of the weekend is not to watch rugby... its to get smashed off your face) ANYWAY... we went for dinner with some friends and it was totally obvius we had a thing cos we were hugging the ENTIRE time and holding hands and flirting etc.(we were sober by then) so his friends left after dinner (he payed for me :D) and we walked to this park in the middle of HK and sat in the middle of this huge field (it was raining btw and night so all the HK lights were on) and just talked.

We moved to a park bench and kissed eachothers cheeks and lips with mouths closed. Then we made out :) it was the cutest thing ever and we were there for like 30mins. Im glad my first kiss was so sweet. It was raining, in a park, at night with a sweet guy :D. - Hannah, 17

My first kiss was on Friday the 13th. It was kind of awkward.. My friends and I were walking home with a big group of boys. All the boys turned on a different street and my friends hid behind a stop sign, so me and my boyfriend of 2 months were left alone. He asked me if i wanted to kiss, and i said sure. He grabbed my neck and pecked my lips. The kiss lasted a half a second.

Nothing like I pictured. I really really like him, but i just didnt feel anything. I smiled then he said, "yeah, im kinda bad." so i walked back to my friends and about 5 minutes later he texted me and said that it was magical. - anonymous, 13, OH